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Written By Carol Yan | Counselling Psychologist
 
 

All My Friends Are Invisible: A Memoir By Jonathan Joly

“When the world doesn’t understand you, it’s time to create your own.”

This read is highly recommended even if you do not share these life experiences, thoughts, or upbringing - it is very relatable. A now famous YouTuber and Instagram influencer, Jonathan Joly shares his story of strength and breakdown, quite literally and figuratively, which helps the reader understand the trials and tribulations of life and how pure survival can look like during such times of trauma.

This deeply personal memoir takes you on an emotional journey of a young queer Irish boy, during the 1980s in Ireland, left with not much besides his form of survival which allowed him to make it through some of his darkest times in life as well as allowing him to be his true self in a safe place he created.

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Carol Yan | Counselling Psychologist

Carol Yan is a Counselling Psychologist practicing from the Satori Health Centre. She practices online.
She is a South African expat who moved to The Netherlands as a trailing spouse in 2021. With this new adventure her practice moved exclusively online and she works with clients across the globe. She is passionate about assisting third culture kids, as well as adult individuals and couples within expat or international communities. She also uses brain-based and somatic techniques to assist after traumatic experiences.

https://www.carolyanpsychology.com/
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